One way to live a happy life is to feel good. One way to feel good is to look good and I'm not going to talk about healthy life here because that's just boring.
Baggy + Suite + Music = 2011
First, wear a fitted white shirt. Yes, as much as possible, one designed for women. I no longer have to assert my masculine side by wearing men's clothing. But not entirely owning my womanly curves and play them up because that's just disgusting. Next, keep it slightly loosened to soften the look. Pair all this with jeans and nice boots or shoes, and we have a modern look that shows pride and style. Simple.